Dear Diary
Im off to Taipei tomorrow..bye Malaysia!See u Soon
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Monday, November 16, 2009
Patah Hati..
Dear Diary
While anyone is able to break up with someone, How to deal with a breakup maturely and as an adult is not always an easy task. This sometimes means setting aside your feelings, and considering the feelings of someone else before your own. While this may seem like an easy task in practice, it is much harder than it sounds.
However, there are things you can do, that will help you learn how to deal with the breakup maturely both for your own sanity and for your own self-esteem.
Stop and think at the time it takes you to have a childish argument with your ex. This is wasted time that can be spent at the spa, playing basketball or even hanging out with your friends. This means instead of always looking to pick a fight with your ex, you sometimes just walk away. This may be easier with some exes than others. If your ex is someone who tries to continuously pick a fight, than it is a much a harder task than if your ex is someone who is normally quiet and passive.
This can mean avoiding making comments that you know could initiate a fight.
While breaking up maturely may seem, for some people, to take all of the fun out of breaking up, it really does not, because you are left with more time to do things that you actually enjoy.Much better than simply torturing your ex.
For example, if you have children, you may find it amusing to tell your ex that they cannot see the children unless they give you something you want. However, this is a very inappropriate behavior,and a bad example for your children.
Learning how to deal with a breakup of the mature adult is not a skill that everyone is born with, and it is not even a skill that everyone can master within just a few days.
There are some people who catch on to the concepts quite quickly, and others who must practice for a long time before their skilled in acting mature when breaking up.
Where in the spectrum you fall will often depends on your own personal circumstances, your personality, the personality of your ex, and the exact reasons why you are breaking up.
The circumstances matter, too. If there was no violence or cheating that occurred in the relationship it's easier to act like adults. If however you are jealous because you were cheated on, then often acting mature is much harder to do.
Whatever happend, you are ultimately responsible for your own behavior and your own actions. This means you must avoid all temptation to sink to the same level as your ex even if they act immature. You should still remain the calm, cool, and collected adult of the relationship. This will be worthwhile, as you are the one in control.
Relatioships sometimes end, and breaking up is a part of life. It involves simply moving along to do something that will make you happy. Torturing your ex and acting immature is ultimately not going to make you happy. Instead, look to find things will make you happy, regardless of your relationships outcomes.
While anyone is able to break up with someone, How to deal with a breakup maturely and as an adult is not always an easy task. This sometimes means setting aside your feelings, and considering the feelings of someone else before your own. While this may seem like an easy task in practice, it is much harder than it sounds.
However, there are things you can do, that will help you learn how to deal with the breakup maturely both for your own sanity and for your own self-esteem.
Stop and think at the time it takes you to have a childish argument with your ex. This is wasted time that can be spent at the spa, playing basketball or even hanging out with your friends. This means instead of always looking to pick a fight with your ex, you sometimes just walk away. This may be easier with some exes than others. If your ex is someone who tries to continuously pick a fight, than it is a much a harder task than if your ex is someone who is normally quiet and passive.
This can mean avoiding making comments that you know could initiate a fight.
While breaking up maturely may seem, for some people, to take all of the fun out of breaking up, it really does not, because you are left with more time to do things that you actually enjoy.Much better than simply torturing your ex.
For example, if you have children, you may find it amusing to tell your ex that they cannot see the children unless they give you something you want. However, this is a very inappropriate behavior,and a bad example for your children.
Learning how to deal with a breakup of the mature adult is not a skill that everyone is born with, and it is not even a skill that everyone can master within just a few days.
There are some people who catch on to the concepts quite quickly, and others who must practice for a long time before their skilled in acting mature when breaking up.
Where in the spectrum you fall will often depends on your own personal circumstances, your personality, the personality of your ex, and the exact reasons why you are breaking up.
The circumstances matter, too. If there was no violence or cheating that occurred in the relationship it's easier to act like adults. If however you are jealous because you were cheated on, then often acting mature is much harder to do.
Whatever happend, you are ultimately responsible for your own behavior and your own actions. This means you must avoid all temptation to sink to the same level as your ex even if they act immature. You should still remain the calm, cool, and collected adult of the relationship. This will be worthwhile, as you are the one in control.
Relatioships sometimes end, and breaking up is a part of life. It involves simply moving along to do something that will make you happy. Torturing your ex and acting immature is ultimately not going to make you happy. Instead, look to find things will make you happy, regardless of your relationships outcomes.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Taiwan< here I come!
Dear Diary
Il be going to Taiwan before Raya Haji. My Mom is transfered there. so the whole family:ayah, mama, Tiqa, daniel n me will be going to Taiwan in 2 weeks time. I hope to get a chance to visit Teipei 101, the tallest building in the world(current. tp yg x beshnya, my family wud be there sampai end of Dec, whereas I the fab, gorgeous and beautiful (wink!wink!)Nury Akmal will have to leave early..sob..sob.. hurmmmm. kalau x pasai keja, x ingin nak balik awal. bole shopping kat Hong Kong ...eish..
Il be going to Taiwan before Raya Haji. My Mom is transfered there. so the whole family:ayah, mama, Tiqa, daniel n me will be going to Taiwan in 2 weeks time. I hope to get a chance to visit Teipei 101, the tallest building in the world(current. tp yg x beshnya, my family wud be there sampai end of Dec, whereas I the fab, gorgeous and beautiful (wink!wink!)Nury Akmal will have to leave early..sob..sob.. hurmmmm. kalau x pasai keja, x ingin nak balik awal. bole shopping kat Hong Kong ...eish..
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Wahhhhh
Dear diary
just had a training td at auditorium. ms makan tengah hari td the caterer tgh dok susun sudu, very creative one, i tell u.took a pic of the sudu arangement, just in case one day i get married, i want the arrangement of the sudus to be just like this,can ah??hehehehe
Saturday, October 31, 2009
from cameron to putrajaya to sepang to seremban to pd n back to putrajaya
Dear Diary
Today suck!!i was planning to go for a holiday to cameron highland with ben. my sista showed up and wanted to stay in my house this weekend..oklah nevermind..datangla i said..she cud jaga my puss while im gone..so there we were happily travelling up north.my sista frantically called me n said that puss went missing!!WTMF!!!!!!i was crying so hard n told my sista to search for puss.so ben said that "nak balik putrajaya ke?" n i looked at the street signage, we were 19 km to exit tapah...ala!!!!tension jek. so reluctantly i agreed to turn back to putrajaya. i was crying n calling my sista every hour..i know its crazy.its just a cat but i had puss when he was a baby..so the relationship was very tight la...then my sista called me again, this time we were at LDP almost 15 min to reach my house, n she said that she found him!!ARGHHHH!!!tension jek.
then ben said "oklah kita pegi lunch then after solat zohor kita jalan kat pd, g muzium".lagila i tension!WTMFF!!! we were in the car for 4 hours..
after solat zohor kat sepang, i said told him i dont wanna go..so ben kata "jomla pg betulkan windscreen kereta dia kat seremban. so i pun said ok...so we went to his house n ironically kereta kawan dia was parked behind his car!arghhhhhh.damn.so have to wait his friend untuk alihkan kereta. dekat 1 jam menunggu, so i was bored. i said to him "nak balikla" so i got to my car n i was at the tol, he called me saying that kawan dia da alihkan kereta.baru 5 min i blah tetiba dia bole kuar lak. i ckp kat ben, nevermind i follow u from behind la.so both of us pegila kedai keta tu...the chinese guy cakap oo kereta ni kena tunggu 1 jam br siap..tension lg la i..menunggu lg...
dah la my plan to go for a holiday musnah ranap..pastu dari pagi sampai petang holiday kat dalam kereta. last2 lps maghrib kami pg mkn n dia hntr i balik putrajaya
what a day!kami telah merentas 3 negeri dalam ms sehari..penat bagai nak gila
n today im cleaning my house pd hari sepatutnya sy berada di atas bukit sambil mkn strawberry n minum teh....hurmm...takde rezeki.so pgla next time...Hairul azmi bin deraman!abg owe ayg one vacay tau!!!
Monday, October 19, 2009
Da Tue!!!
Dear Diary
Happy Hari Jadi to My Sista, Nury Atiqah Kamalrudin!semoge panjang umor murah rejeki
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